It’s frustrating, we know. Is there a reason why they do this? Read here to know why!
Try it tonight. Download DOWN hookup app for IOS or Android now and start flirting!
We’ve all been in the position where guys seem to be so into you, like they can’t get enough of you, and then ghost you the next day. And now you don’t know how to take it in. You’re thinking of all the things you might have done wrong that made him act this way when it might not have been your fault.
In most cases, it’s not your fault. There are a lot of reasons why he ghosted you, so let’s look at some of the things that could’ve caused this to happen.
6 Reasons Why Guys Act Interested But Then Disappear on You
1. He was just in it for the sex.
There has to be an agreement since the beginning with the person you’re seeing. Most people know what they’re looking for; something that could turn into a relationship or just a hookup. Either way, it’s nothing to be shamed for – everyone is entitled to their own wants in a relationship (or the lack thereof).
But if he was just in it for the sex, then it’s normal for him to disappear after seeing you that night. Usually a one night stand doesn’t happen for two nights, and usually there’s no date afterwards. It’s not called a one night stand if there was. If you don’t know that he was just looking for sex, then next time when seeing a guy, this should be one of the things you ask him.
Try it tonight. Download DOWN hookup app for IOS or Android now and start flirting!
2. He has other priorities.
Like all human beings, we have different priorities in our lives. Some of us prefer to focus on our career, some of us would like to pursue love. But just because you choose to focus on your career, doesn’t mean that you can’t have love. And vice versa – which is why it’s called a priority list, right?
Though it’s hard to believe – and there’s a good chance he’s saying that just for the sake of it, it doesn’t mean that he hates you. It just means that he can’t give you the time or attention you want/deserve at the moment and he’d rather back off.
3. He just broke up with someone.
Getting out of a breakup is difficult, whether it was a long term or short term relationship. Perhaps you were a rebound, a stress reliever that he needed, and it was wrong of him to treat you as such. It wouldn’t be a great idea to see him if he had already told you he just broke up with someone.
Maybe he ghosted you because he’s reminded of his previous relationship, and he’s not fully ready to trust people in that circumstance yet.
Try it tonight. Download DOWN hookup app for IOS or Android now and start flirting!
4. They have commitment issues.
It’s more common than you think. And he might not realize that he has commitment issues. Now this isn’t an excuse for you to stay around and try to ‘fix’ him because no one should or can fix someone. It takes emotional maturity to be able to start committing to someone, and if he doesn’t think it’s worth it to commit to you or is scared, then he will back off completely.
5. If he’s a playboy.
A casanova, a chad, a fuck boy, if you will. Usually a playboy goes out, parties a lot, drinks, has a bunch of friends, and girls just can’t help but to flock around him. You might have fallen victim to his trap, but it’s completely not personal from his side. That’s just who he is, and these boys are known to ghost you.
6. He’s just not that into you.
You might have been in your best dress, your heels, fiery makeup that just makes you look gorgeous, but a guy could be so into your body, but just not into you. They won’t take time to understand your personality or feelings, just simply because he’s just not that into you enough to make you his girlfriend.
Try it tonight. Download DOWN hookup app for IOS or Android now and start flirting!
Now you can’t tell me that you have never ghosted or became uninterested in someone before. It happens to everyone, and the reasons are mainly because you’re just… not really interested in them. It’s best not to let the fact that he ghosted you get to you too much. Instead, try focusing on yourself, doing what you love. If he disappeared, let him. He doesn’t know what he’s missing.