Does he like me? Does he not? If he does these 5 things, he definitely likes you.
You need to know if he likes you, or at least attracted to you. Well if he does these things, there’s a pretty good chance that he does like you very much. One thing you need to keep in mind:
If he wanted to, he would.
It’s that simple, ladies. No one needs a legitimate answer when it comes to doing things for or with the person you like, you’d just do it because you want to!
Reciting Giselle from Enchanted, “Well does he leave a little note to tell you you are on his mind? Send you yellow flowers when the sky is grey? He’ll find a new way to show you, a little bit everyday. That’s how you know he’s your love.”
That being said, here’s a few things so that you know a bit more of what I’m talking about.
1. He pays attention.
I’m not talking about listening to you when you’re speaking, that’s basic etiquette. I’m talking about paying attention to the little details — does he remember what kind of foods you like and don’t like? Does he remember that little thing you were frustrated about? Does he remember your small pet peeves? It’s the little things that show that he cares.
2. He plans.
Are you guys going on a date soon? Did he mention where?
If not, ask him if you two are still meeting up and tell him to let you know when and where. Don’t settle with just “hey let’s go out.” If he likes you, he’ll make the effort to at least plan the date he asked you out on.
3. Physical affection.
This one is obvious, but still needs to be said. Does he touch you in any way? Pat your head? Hold your hand when you walk? Rub your shoulders when you’re feeling off?
It shows a level of emotional intimacy and exclusivity. It usually shows that you’re being vulnerable with the other person and that you’re comfortable and trust them.
4. He compliments you.
Does he tell you you look good? Does he hype you up? Tell you the outfit you bought looks amazing on you?
These are all effortless things. It’s just like how you could compliment him that he looks good. It doesn’t take effort does it? It just lifts the other person’s mood.
5. He makes time for you.
If a guy likes you, then he’ll make time for you. You won’t have to beg him to go somewhere with you, he’ll make the time because he wants to be with you. He’ll prioritize spending time with you when he has free time, and won’t cancel on you to hang out with the boys.
In conclusion, if you want to know if he likes you or not, the simplest answer is: you’ll know. If you’re feeling confused, that means he’s not that into you. You won’t be questioning everything if he likes you, you’ll just know because there would be no reason for you to question anything.